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  there are 2 classes of ex Jehovahs witnesses

  by the max in

  1. watchtower
  2. scandals

  hi im part of a group of ex jh,s, we meet for drinks and dinner, go to football games.many of the guys do drugs,(i dont, i like sport) , most live very hedonistic lifestyles, lets leave it at that,(im happily married).

  my point is, when i left, i was honest, and got df,d.

  now im experiencing the same kind of shit that i experieced in the hall, the ex jw,s are just as judgemental, and stupid as when they were at the kingdom hall, for eg you were df,d we were not,it doesnt matter to them, that their doing coke and getting into group sex.

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  Murray Smith

  I became inactive chiefly because of illness . . . and was left alone from day one.

  It prompted me to re-evaluate, and my family and I concluded it was a cult and we weren't going back.

  Since then I have eagerly awaited contact for my "sins" . . . in WT eyes being a rabid apostate. I even posted a thread here asking how I could invite attention. The best idea I got was to stand outside the KH with a sign saying "Millions Now Living Will Never Get Laid" . . . not my style.

  So all I got of value was a spanking from Mr Flipper.

  I finally had to conclude (as many posters pointed out) . . . that in spite of 25 years in the cult . . . they don't give enough of a shit about me to even DF me.

  I am in no doubt that is the same reason your "friends" are enjoying their percieved "status" . . . their a joke!

  Wear your DF like a badge of honour . . . compared to them, that's what it is . . . as for me . . . I'm jealous.
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  Hello everyone..

  by Georges. in

  1. jw
  2. friends

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  my name isgeorge.i'mfrench.i'mglad iregisteredhere.iama jehovah's witnessfor 27 years.iamhappytoknowgod.. george..

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  Murray Smith

  OK . . . I give up!

  Keep doing the WT's work for them!
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  They caught me house-sitting in Houston this morning

  by Fatfreek in

  1. jw
  2. experiences

  i went outside and to the car this morning for some items and saw some walkers (very slow walkers) approaching, in pairs, a few homes away.

  i knew i had a little time to think.

  when the doorbell rang i was ready.. we've got a few more days here in houston, just north of braes bayou and near stella link rd.

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  Murray Smith

  Great job Len . . . it is good that you took the opportunity seriously. Sounds like you planted some serious doubt there.

  It's good to remember these are the victims of a mind-controlling cult and deserve every assistance we can offer to GET OUT. I wish (as many do) that someone had taken the time to pose a well-informed question to make me re-think things a lot earlier.

  It's a selfish error to look down on and deride current JW's, when we were one and the same for so long ourselves.

  Great job
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  Just had a JW lady at the door and boy can she lie or has no clue!

  by donny in

  1. jw
  2. friends

  funny how things work.

  i had just posted a sarcastic question on pc's thread about last nights call with the six screens folks when the door bell rang.

  it was a jw lady and she was by herself.

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  Murray Smith

  JW - . . . I think you're confused . . .

  That is hilarious!

  Good question donny . . . "I have to get going" . . . ideal response
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  Hello everyone..

  by Georges. in

  1. jw
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  my name isgeorge.i'mfrench.i'mglad iregisteredhere.iama jehovah's witnessfor 27 years.iamhappytoknowgod.. george..

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  Murray Smith

  OK Phil . . . It's clear what you're doing . . . I'm just questioning the wisdom of it.

  Consider this . . .

  The fact that this site is not clearly identified as an "apostate website" (for JW's) is a good thing . . . it invites them to access it without the heavy load of WT induced guilt.

  If they have registered by mistake . . . what's the worst that can happen? . . . they will realise the mistake and withdraw . . . maybe a little embarassed

  What's the best that can happen? . . . they may find something here that matches doubts they may be harbouring, (as with many JW's) and read something that initiates their passage out of a dangerous cult.

  If it came to pass in say 5 or 10 years from now that georges does exit the cult how will he look on your post then? . . . "Hell, I could have done this ten years ago if only that Philidelphia Ponos guy hadn't warned me away"

  Just think about it
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  OK, WHO HERE IS GOING TO WATCH THE ROYAL WEDDING???

  by Mary in

  1. social
  2. current

  i admit it----i plan on getting up at 4:00 freaking am to watch it.

  i remember getting up around that time 30 years ago .

  anyone else plan on watching it?.

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  Murray Smith

  Who is getting married?

  Someone called William Arthur Philip Louis Windsor and a girl called Kate . . . nobody important
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  Hello everyone..

  by Georges. in

  1. jw
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  my name isgeorge.i'mfrench.i'mglad iregisteredhere.iama jehovah's witnessfor 27 years.iamhappytoknowgod.. george..

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  Murray Smith

  Phil . . . this is georges thread . . . let him manage it. You don't need to be a self-appointed moral policeman . . . especially when it only serves to dissuade new posters.

  The first 'unwelcoming' post on this thread was YOURS

  My apologies georges . . . please continue
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  Hello everyone..

  by Georges. in

  1. jw
  2. friends

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  my name isgeorge.i'mfrench.i'mglad iregisteredhere.iama jehovah's witnessfor 27 years.iamhappytoknowgod.. george..

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  Murray Smith

  Phil . . . he may be quite capable of ignoring (some) people, even if you can't . . . your post simply makes him feel unwelcome . . . let's try and bring the 99.9% down a little . . . don't you get sick of talking to XJW's ALL the time?
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  Hello everyone..

  by Georges. in

  1. jw
  2. friends

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  my name isgeorge.i'mfrench.i'mglad iregisteredhere.iama jehovah's witnessfor 27 years.iamhappytoknowgod.. george..

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  Murray Smith

  Aw hell Phil . . . you've done it again! There could be a reason for there being no disclaimer . . . this forum welcomes current JW's

  You don't have to chase them away everytime . . . or do you think we're a threat to their spirituality or something?

  Sorry . . . A big HELLO to you Georges . . . you are most welcome here. Look forward to hearing more from you.

  I am also a Jehovah's Witness of 25 years though no longer active.
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  There's someone here who shouldn't be

  by mrsjones5 in

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  *i'm posting this in a public place so this person will see it, i'm not sure if they are a member of the board or not but i'm sure they're a lurker*.

  dear person who knows my mother, i want you to know that i am not nor have i never been a jw.

  yes as you well know i was raised in the org but i was never baptised into it.

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  Murray Smith

  Wow . . . a Jay-Dub using slimy underhand tactics to break up family relationships . . . what a suprise!

  If you can identify this person I would consider advising his BOE . . . righteous warfare if ever it had a defensible cause

  Good on you for calling it MrsJ